Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy

· Penguin Random House Audio · Narrated by Rachel Krantz
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An award-winning journalist chronicles her first open relationship with “breathtaking honesty” (Los Angeles Times) in this “sexy, messy, necessary look at polyamory” (The Advocate).

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When Rachel Krantz met and fell for Adam, he told her that he was looking for a committed partnership—just one that did not include monogamy. Intrigued and more than a little nervous, Krantz decided to see whether their love could coexist with the freedom to date other people. Could they strike an exquisite balance between intimacy and independence, and find a way to feel passion for each other once the honeymoon phase ended?
 
Krantz documents her dive into polyamory, from Brooklyn sex parties to swinging and beyond, in her extraordinary debut memoir. As she attempts to write a new plot for her love story with Adam, she runs up against miscommunications, gaslighting, and ancient power dynamics, and seeks solid ground in a relationship where the rules are ever-shifting. An award-winning journalist, she interviewed scientists, psychologists, and people living and loving outside the mainstream as she searched to understand what polyamory would do to her heart, her mind, and her life. 

With an unflinching eye and page-turning storytelling, Open is groundbreaking in both its documentarian approach to polyamory and its explicit subject matter. From debilitating anxiety spirals to heart-opening connections with the men and women she dates, Rachel puts her whole self on the line as she attempts to redefine what a relationship is—or could be.

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4.5
4 reviews
Eve A Stardust
May 4, 2022
Real life story of a polyamorous relationship, that, like some monogamous relationships, has a power imbalance. I felt glued to the book for the first half, somewhere around three quarters of the way through it got a little bogged down with thinking. Then it picked up near the end, once she left the relationship. She's bi but she doesn't have a meaningful long-term polyam relationship with a woman.
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Rebecca Nagy
November 17, 2022
I am in awe! Rachel Krantz may have just become my new favorite author. Her scientific footnotes were vital. She sounded impartial, brutally honest about her experiences, and sexually empowering. What a liberating book!
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About the author

Rachel Krantz is a journalist and one of the founding editors of Bustle, where she served as senior features editor for three years. Her work has been featured on NPR, The Guardian, Vox, Vice, and many other outlets. She’s the recipient of the Robert F. Kennedy Journalism Award, the Investigative Reporters and Editors Radio Award, the Edward R. Murrow Award, and the Peabody Award for her work as an investigative reporter with YR Media. Open is her first book.

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