Parently - Christian Parenting

Umzali uhlelo lokusebenza lobuKristu lokukhulisa izingane eziklanyelwe ukukusiza ugxile enjongweni kaNkulunkulu ngabantwana bakho, weluse izinhliziyo zabo ngezindlela zokuhlakanipha kukaNkulunkulu. Ingabe ukhathele ukuzizwa ukhungathekile futhi uwedwa ekukhuliseni izingane zakho? Ingabe uhlanganisa ukholo, umama, ubaba, ukulawula kwabazali, ukunakekelwa kwengane, ukukhula kwengane, umndeni, nengqondo? Awuwedwa. Umzali wuhlelo lokusebenza lokwakha umndeni wamaKristu ochumayo ✨. Kuyindawo ephephile yokukhulisa ukholo lwezingane zakho, ukukhulisa izingane ezijabulayo ezigxile kuKristu, ujulise izibopho zomndeni, uthole ukuthula, injabulo nokuzola emndenini wakho wamaKristu. Yamukela uhambo lobuzali ngenjongo, egxilile okholweni nasekuhlakanipheni njengoba uqala isipiliyoni sokuba umzali esiguqulayo!

Njengabazali abangamaKristu, siyaqonda ukuthi kuyinselele kangakanani ukukhulisa Izingane Ezihlonipha UNkulunkulu ezweni elingamesabi uNkulunkulu futhi yingakho sakhe lolu hlelo lokusebenza lokukhulisa izingane. Yisikhathi sokuthi uveze umbono webhayibheli wokuba umzali njengoba wembulelwe thina ngemibhalo engcwele. Yiba umzali obona injongo kaNkulunkulu ngezingane zakho kusukela zisencane. Yiba umzali ongawesabi amasiko ezwe. Yiba umzali ongavumeli ukwesaba ukubhala izindaba zezingane zakho. Yiba umzali osebenzisa wonke amathuba ukuze agxilise iZwi likaNkulunkulu ezinganeni zakho. Yiba umzali okhulisa abanye babaholi abakhulu abake bababona emhlabeni. Yiba umzali izingane zakhe ezikhanyisa izimbaqa elangabini lakho.

Izici zohlelo lokusebenza lomzali ongumKristu:

📝 Amanothi Awo Yonke Ingqophamlando Yokuba Abazali
Bhala phansi uhambo lwakho lobuzali ngesici sethu samanothi enembile. Thwebula futhi ulandelele izikhathi eziyigugu, ukukhula kwengane, izenzakalo ezibalulekile, nemininingwane. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi amazwi acashuniwe athinta inhliziyo avela enganeni yakho noma ukuzindla komuntu siqu ngenjabulo yokuba umzali, Umzali uqinisekisa ukuthi yonke inkumbulo iyahlonishwa. Hlala uhlelekile ngemibhalo yomuntu siqu, imithandazo, kanye nokuzindla kwengane ngayinye. ✨

📖 Izindatshana Zokukhulisa AmaKristu
Vula inqolobane yobuhlakani bomzali ngezindatshana zethu ezikhethiwe. Hlola izeluleko zobuzali ezingochwepheshe, amathiphu okuba umzali, nemininingwane yeBhayibheli. Zulazula ngezinselele zempilo yangempela ngamathiphu asebenzayo nokuhlakanipha kweBhayibheli futhi uhlale unolwazi, ugqugquzelekile, futhi uhlonyiswe ngamathuluzi owadingayo ukuze ukhulise ukholo lomndeni wakho.

🔄 Izivivinyo zokuzindla zamasonto onke
Khulisa ukukhula nokuba nengqondo ngokusebenzisa ukuzivocavoca kwethu kwamasonto onke. Gubha izimpumelelo, ingqophamlando yokukhula kwengane, ubhekane nezinselele, futhi ubeke izinhloso ezinhle. Ihlelwe ochwepheshe abangamaKristu abangabazali, lesi sici siyikhampasi/umhlahlandlela wakho wokukhulisa umzali ongumKristu womndeni wakho.

👶 Engeza Izingane Zakho
Ngeza kalula izingane zakho ezincane eziyigugu kuphrofayela yakho yoBuzali. Lawula amaphrofayili angawodwana, ulandelele izinyathelo zabo ezibalulekile, futhi uqinisekise ukuthi uhambo lwengane ngayinye luyabungazwa futhi luqondiswa izindinganiso zobuKristu. Dala amaphrofayili wengane ngayinye futhi sizovumelanisa ulwazi lwakho nezidingo neminyaka yazo eyingqayizivele. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhulisa izingane, izingane zasenkulisa, intsha, noma intsha, lolu hlelo lokusebenza luzokusiza ngamathiphu nezeluleko ozidingayo ezinganeni zakho.

🎉 Izikhumbuzi Zezinsuku Ezikhethekile
Ungalokothi uphuthelwe isikhathi esikhethekile, izinsuku zokuzalwa, noma ingqopha-mlando ngezikhumbuzi zethu ezakhelwe ngaphakathi. Thola izikhumbuzi ezifika ngesikhathi zezinsuku zokuzalwa neminye imicimbi ebalulekile yomndeni. Umzali uqinisekisa ukuthi ulungiselele kahle ukudala izinkumbulo ezithandekayo nabantu obathandayo.

Njengoba usebenzisa lolu hlelo lokusebenza lokukhulisa izingane, kuzovela izinga elisha lesibindi njengoba uthola ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukukhulisa izingane zakho ngokholo ngokuvumelana neqiniso likaNkulunkulu hhayi ngokwesaba. Phela ukuba umzali akulona ikhono esilitholayo; yilolo okufanele siqhubeke silicija, njengoba kuwubizo olukhulu kunazo zonke ezimpilweni zethu. Umzali uzophinde aveze ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukusebenzisana noMoya oNgcwele ukuqeqesha izingane zakho ukuba zilolonge isiko kunokukhothama kulo.

Umzali akulona nje uhlelo lokusebenza; iwumngane wokukhulisa ukholo ogxiliswe okholweni owenzelwe imindeni ebeka kuqala ukukhulisa izingane ezihlonipha uNkulunkulu. Ungalindi ukuthi ukhulise umzali wakho uwubeke kwelinye izinga, tshala okholweni lomndeni wakho nekusasa noParent! ✨